Rock Pi 4B+ Ubuntu server 20.04 NVME boot issues

I am 10,000% noob at all this SBC stuff. I was gifted the Rock Pi 4B+ and decided to get one of the HP NVME drives and a hat for it.

I can boot ubuntu just fine from SD but I cannot for the life of me figure out how to get Ubuntu onto NVME (without the SD card in place). I have tried to follow the guide on the wiki but it didn’t pan out. I even read about uncommenting out a line from the spi script to get “option one” to appear and still no dice.

Is there a more comprehensive guide I can follow/youtube tutorial? I’m just not getting it :frowning: