You have a few options. The Thermalright AXP90-X36/47/53s ought to fit and are cheap and readily available on Amazon.
Given the fact that the die is exposed I’d be real conscious of heatsink weight in this application; for that reason–and considering that any of them are overkill for this chip–I’d stick with an X36; they weigh about 230g to the stock heatsink’s ~90. I’m not super pleased that they’re rigidly mounted for the same reason, but I think they’re probably a better option than something heavier that is spring mounted.
I have not test fitted any of mine yet, but I know they support LGA11xx spacing, and I just measured the mounting screws with a pair of calipers; they are smaller than the Radxa stock heatsink screws.
In the attached pic, the long side of the Thermalright screw is about 2.3mm vs. 2.8 or so for the Radxa screw, and it is the side that passes through the board to attach to the backplate. The short threads are the same size and thread pitch as the stock Radxa screws, and those are what mount to the heatsink itself:
Otherwise, Radxa sells the heatsink separately, I ordered one from Arace with my board not realizing the board came with one.
And lastly, the exact same heatsink without the radxa sticker is available on Aliexpress from this vendor (I have not dealt with them, I just found this the other day while browsing): https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256803989514808.html